Regarding bumping ads in the classifed forums, we've just installed a new (customized) add-on that will change the way ads are bumped to the top. Please refer to the post "Bumping Classifed Ads" for details.
I hate to see grown men cry. Grow up and get over it. When I sell something I sell it to whom ever is the best fit for the item. Example. I have a bike for sale.
Buyer 1: "Will you take $200 off the price"
Buyer 2: "Can you ship it to Puerto Rico"
Buyer 3: " I will take it but I will have to...