Not exactly the sellers fault, just another e bay flaw. When a tracking number is provided the listing shows shipped. When I provide a tracking number it's because the item is at the post office. I don't plug in info, get a number and maybe have a pick up once or twice a week. I never leave feedback for sellers that print a number and then the item actually gets shipped four or five days later.
Speaking of being married a long time ( 52 years last May ) my wife said: If I go first would you remarry? No darlin, I'm to old. Would you take up company? Uhh I don't know, maybe. Would you let her drive my car? Uhh I don't know, I guess so. Would you let her sleep on my side of the bed? Uhhh I don't know, maybe. Would you let her use my golf clubs? Uhh. no she's left handed.