It's none of my business, and I guess I'm a lucky 68yo, wife 48+ yrs...but maybe a marriage counselor first?
My wife's attitude is I'm right here working on a bike, car, etc., not running around, drinking, drugs. We do some things together like our horses, cars...I bitch about her buying shoes (well over 1-2K)...but then she says I have much more tools, tractors, mowers, etc.
It's different if bikes or things cause financial problems...otherwise and hopefully things could be worked out amicably.
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