Starting to worry

[tacochris]

...im sure I will be dog-piled on this but......
I fully understand the tone of why this thread is posted, I fully understand the tone of the response....but this is the kind of stuff that has made this site get really toxic. This is between two adults that just happened to have become public, the resolution has happened (even late, it still happened), the fault has been determined to some degree......why not leave it at that? Why push this so far that good members are all arguing with each other and creating rifts that will undoubtedly damage the entire reason we're even on this site?
Just sayin.....there is a reason i dont post here like I used to.

 

[GTs58]

...im sure I will be dog-piled on this but......
I fully understand the tone of why this thread is posted, I fully understand the tone of the response....but this is the kind of stuff that has made this site get really toxic. This is between two adults that just happened to have become public, the resolution has happened (even late, it still happened), the fault has been determined to some degree......why not leave it at that? Why push this so far that good members are all arguing with each other and creating rifts that will undoubtedly damage the entire reason we're even on this site?
Just sayin.....there is a reason i dont post here like I used to.

What?

 

[mrg]

https://thecabe.com/forum/threads/starting-to-worry.212807/post-1462011 Ok, as said way back in post #38, done deal, lesson learned, be up front with your buyer and communicate, enough said ( could say more but won't ), moving on!

 

[phantom]

...im sure I will be dog-piled on this but......
I fully understand the tone of why this thread is posted, I fully understand the tone of the response....but this is the kind of stuff that has made this site get really toxic. This is between two adults that just happened to have become public, the resolution has happened (even late, it still happened), the fault has been determined to some degree......why not leave it at that? Why push this so far that good members are all arguing with each other and creating rifts that will undoubtedly damage the entire reason we're even on this site?
Just sayin.....there is a reason i dont post here like I used to.

Here's why Chris. Whether it's on a forum or in person, people who are not like minded IE: confirmation bias, becomes difficult to reason with. Usually starts with a disagreement followed by an accusation followed by name calling. Turn TV on, it's non stop.

 

[Xlobsterman]

Not sure any type of payment was going to change how this went down.

Yes it would. Buying goods with F&F is about the stupidest thing you can do! You have ZERO recourse if the deal goes south such as the one in question in this post. If it was done with an invoice through PayPal for goods, you have 100% coverage if the seller flakes out on you as he did in this case! You file a claim with PayPal, and if the buyer does not resolve the issue, you get a "FULL REFUND" from PayPal.

 

[Freqman1]

Yes it would. Buying goods with F&F is about the stupidest thing you can do! You have ZERO recourse if the deal goes south such as the one in question in this post. If it was done with an invoice through PayPal for goods, you have 100% coverage if the seller flakes out on you as he did in this case! You file a claim with PayPal, and if the buyer does not resolve the issue, you get a "FULL REFUND" from PayPal.

Trust me there are much more stupid things you can do besides this. I’ve sent, and accepted, many thousands of dollars via this method. As long as you know who you are dealing with it’s not a problem.

 

[Xlobsterman]

Trust me there are much more stupid things you can do besides this. I’ve sent, and accepted, many thousands of dollars via this method. As long as you know who you are dealing with it’s not a problem.

And by doing so, you are in violation of PayPal's user agreement..........!

 

[Freqman1]

And by doing so, you are in violation of PayPal's user agreement..........!

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Whatever

 

[Xlobsterman]

Whatever

LOL

 

[DrRumack80]

And by doing so, you are in violation of PayPal's user agreement..........!

On a $3,000 purchase, the fee is $90. That is a small price to pay for the peace of mind of a full refund should something go wrong. A lot can go wrong with a deal and you can rarely trust someone 100%