You have to know the health of your threads on the stem bolt and wedge. If it torques up normal and doesn't give you that rubbery feeling, they're all OK. Also if you go beating too hard on say...a 50s stem bolt...that isn't hardened, you'll want to take it all the way out and make sure you haven't bent it. I'm pretty sure I've turned a few stem bolts "S" shaped even with a 1lb hammer. If that's all ok and you've raised the bolt head and tapped it down a few times, it's safe to say your wedge is moving down with it.